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Forum > Deflecting Unwanted Sidewalk Attention

Deflecting Unwanted Sidewalk Attention

7:00 AM 07/09/2012

 

lechefresca

NY

It's midday and sweltering on my day off and I'm attempting grab a quick bite and/or get my heavy groceries home without them melting. As I reach the home stretch on 14th between Irving and Kenyon, the tag team in matching shirts lurks in the distance, clipboards in hand. "Got a minute?," they ask as I walk by.
Canvassers used to not get to me, but lately I have been annoyed at the level of aggression displayed by some who try to simultaneously enlighten me while soliciting my credit card information.  I'm tired of being lunged at and feel singled out ("Hey you! Yes, you! You know you want to talk to me about the environment, because you're carrying reusable bags!") as I attempt to run a few measly errands at DC USA. In most cases, I will smile and politely decline or say I've already talked to them before (FACT), because they are ALWAYS out on that stretch. What irks me is how some will formulate a quick retort intended to make you feel like a soulless individual who doesn't care about gay rights, protecting a woman's right to choose, or contraception for all. In writing this, I do not intend to offend anyone who does this for a living. I deal with enough craziness at work, and I just want to walk in my neighborhood in peace!
So I ask, fellow PoP colleagues...what's your strategy for handling canvassers or other unsolicited individuals who approach you when you're out minding your own business?

 

 

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    binpetworth

    DC

    Carry a tissue in your pocket/hand. When you start to see the clipboard brigade approach, make a point of blowing your nose loudly into the tissue (or faking it even if you don't have anything to expel). Seriously--this works for me every time. No one wants someone with a snotty nose or potential cold to be spreading their germs onto their pen/clipboard/general area.

    8:14 AM 07/09/2012 | 0 Votes

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    • megan

      Washington DC, DC

      Ha ha, I have a similar strategy: I start coughing/hacking really loud. It always works.

      9:55 AM 07/09/2012

          
    • jamesjones

      SO DIRTY

      2:37 AM 04/10/2013

          
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    gotryit

    I don't think anyone is judging you for brushing them off - we've all been harassed by them enough. I ignore them and don't care.

    I think of them along the lines of those crazies that shout hate speech at the corner - just with a better message.

    8:18 AM 07/09/2012 | 1 Votes

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    allison

    DC

    I just tell them "I've already maxed out my donation budget for the year, thank you."

    8:22 AM 07/09/2012 | 1 Votes

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    • jamesjones

      HAHA 4GET DA POOR, FORGET THAT THIER GRANDPARENTS WERE SLAVES AND BUILD AMERICA LOL

      2:30 AM 04/10/2013

          
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    caroline

    There are a lot of them by Eastern Market where I live. I just smile and politely tell them I'm busy right now, without slowing down. Whatever you do, don't answer their opening question, e.g. "Do you support gay rights?" -- it's a trap designed to make you feel guilty about not donating, and will make it harder to escape.
    Sometimes you do get stuck listening to their pitch, especially if they're going door-to-door. In that case I try to cut them off as early as possible, and tell them that while I probably would support their cause I need to do some more research before comitting to it. It's the truth, anyway, even though it's not what they want to hear. You have to be really firm with these people and will probably have to repeat yourself a few times before they give up.
     

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    thebear

    Dupont Circle, DC

    I usually say something like "You're preaching to the choir!" if it's a cause I support; otherwise, "Sounds like you're the one who needs some enlightenment."  And I just keep going.

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    ag11

    I just smile and say "sorry, can't right now."  I'm sure that as unpleasant as it is for me, all that constant rejection and feeling like you're badgering people is a million times worse for them.  Even if they are doing it for the cause, I doubt they enjoy their job.

    10:26 AM 07/09/2012 | 0 Votes

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    scarydogmother

    You don't owe anyone your attention out in public--that goes for canvassers, panhandlers and dudes who order you to smile or badger you for your number. Tell them you're already a supporter, and keep moving. And remember they're not out there for shits and giggles. It must suck to do that job. So be nice, but don't get caught up.

    11:13 AM 07/09/2012 | 0 Votes

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    aurora

    Washington, DC

    Generally I just ignore the canvassers, unless they're working for an organization I donate to (in which case I tell them I already donate.) 
    Although I have to admit, the fact that the canvassers have approached me while I'm carrying several heavy grocery bags home really irks me too.  Isn't it obvious that I wouldn't have a free hand to make a donation, even if I wanted to?

    11:31 AM 07/09/2012 | 0 Votes

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    jd

    Simple: "Sorry, I donate online." (Which you should do anyway. It's not unusual for the canvassers to get as much as a 40% cut of what they bring in.)

    1:43 PM 07/09/2012 | 0 Votes

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    chinarider

    I am a Journalist, so I just tell them I am "On the Clock" - and cannot support any causes as such....

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    soulshadow55

    I agree.  A simple "no thank you" is all I do.  I contribute to several charities; I know what's in my heart and I don't feel the need to explain myself to anyone.  Those people don't know you and the only thing they are trying to do is meet their quota.  Go on your merry way and don't let it bother you. 

    2:47 PM 07/10/2012 | 1 Votes

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    elza

    DC

    I just say, "I can't give any money, sorry," and keep walking.
    I always wonder how this fundraising strategy could really be that effective for charities. Having to pay canvassers has to cost more than they actually raise--I've never seen anyone actually make a donation.

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    • jamesjones

      THATS WHY THEY GONNA ROB U, AND U BETTA NOT EVER GO BROKE, CUZ PEOPLE ARE GONNA TREAT U DA SAME

      2:32 AM 04/10/2013

          
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    brienneoftarth

    NY

    I pretend to be on my phone. Works like a charm.

    4:04 PM 07/10/2012 | 0 Votes

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    figby

    I have been approached in a pouring rain by these canvassers -- "Got a minute for the environment?" So annoying. My strategy for street nuisances of all types is to just start muttering darkly to myself and keep walking. Even if you are dressed for work they will suspect you're crazy and leave you alone. Works like a breeze and you don't have to justify or respond to them.
    But I totally agree -- it would be nice to live in the city without constantly being aggressively accosted and badgered on the street. Between the panhandlers, sexual harassers, Street Sense vendors and incessant "Got a mintue?" "Got a minute?" canvassers, it becomes a real quality of life issue.
     

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    cubemonkey

    Answer 1: I'm a Republican. Go get a real job hippie.
    Answer 2: I work for the White House and ethics and conflict of interest restrictions prevent me from contributing to any organizations. But I'm fighting for your cause from the inside!
    Neither of which are remotely true.

    9:38 AM 07/11/2012 | 0 Votes

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    • jamesjones

      NO YOUR NOT , U GET PAIDED ENDLESS MONEY 2 SIT ON UR BUTT , BUT U CAN GIVE ANY FRM DA SAME URBAN (HOOD) THATS PAYS U , RIGHT TRUE REPUBLICAN , LOL YALL ARE PART OF DA NEW WORLD ORDER , BUT GOD WILL EQUAL EVERYTHING , WATCHOUT 4 THOSE ROBBERIES

      2:36 AM 04/10/2013

          
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    patti

    DC

    I usually tell them I already donate to whatever organization they're representing. It's (usually) a lie, but I figure maybe it'll give them a little boost of optimism instead of the constant ignorance or rejection they probably get all day!

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    caitb

    As a former canvassar for a public interest group (door-to-door in rural New England, so I was the person interrupting your dinner rather than your walk), I'm thankful for everyone who makes an effort to be nice and polite! It isn't an especially easy job, generally pretty low paying, and even the most passing positive interactions really do make a difference in your day. My own strategy is to donate when I can and otherwise say "no thanks" and wish them luck - they likely need it!

    5:00 PM 07/13/2012 | 0 Votes

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